January 31, 2006

Anytime is Blog Time

It's in between my two morning classes and I have been moved to blog. I would like to thank Mike for teaching me that "Anytime is Blog Time!"

The morning class was pretty much business as usual except for a few extra complaints from students about how teachers don't do certain things like they use to. One of the examples given was a teacher not calling the parent when the child's grades begin to slip.

I found this quite interesting because a teacher, at least a middle school or high school teacher, has to take care of over 100 kids along with just that child. Either way, it was valid complaint and I understand where the student was coming from.

During my break, I've also been catching up on my daily blog reads. Seems like my friends have been doing a better job of updating recently. Way to go! I was reading one blog and the subject material involved a boy and a girl becoming friends after the end of a relationship. I've only experienced this once so I really don't have much material on that subject.

I remember at the end of one relationship a while back and the girl assured me that, "We could still be friends." I always found the idea of becoming friends at the end of a relationship to be humorous. This is probably because being friends only involved the polite "Hello" when we saw each other and the occasional online conversation. But in reality, that's not what I would call a "friend". Does the meaning of the word change for the end of a relationship?

Maybe? I'll leave that up for debate but for now let's enjoy my random teacher quote:

"Don't confuse children wanting to learn with children wanting to do a worksheet."

January 30, 2006

Life 8 -- Kyle 1

It is amazing that I mentioned a scoreboard in my last post. I guess life decided to kick my butt today for some reason. It all started when the alarm went off today and the game began.

I bet I layed in bed for half an hour this morning almost expecting to be extremely tired but for some reason I had a ton of energy. I didn't even get that much sleep the night before because I tossed and turned from 1:30 AM to about 3:30 AM. Imagine my surprise when I jumped out of bed and took the lead 1-0.

However, Life threw me a curveball in the second inning because as I was getting dressed the "bad day" feeling came over me and I had trouble with it the rest of the day. I hate it when that happens because then I truly believe that bad "little" things will happen. Tie game!

As I entered my office, Life took the lead. The office had not been cleaned and it looked like my Uncle's place with all of the newspapers spread around. After cleaning I headed to a day full of classes and 1 big headache (RBI) from Life. The score was 3 to 1.

My Spanish and Macroeconomics classes didn't help my confidence either as Life broke open the game in the late innings. I knew I should have brought in my relievers "Advil" and "Coffee" but we couldn't because they were in a contract dispute with my wallet (Management). I didn't do so well on my Econ Quiz and that was the final straw when Life finished up the game with a 8-1 trouncing.

Now, I sit in the middle of class in a haze filled with slides and the smell of old hot dogs rotting. I think I will not be going to the Y this evening because I need to study, relax a little bit, and hit the showers. Please drive home safely!

January 29, 2006

Where's My Scoreboard?

It has been a few days since my last post. I just haven’t had the desire to write anything down. A lot has happened since my last post so I’ll try to give the cliff notes version of what is “My Life” by Me.

Friday night was the Recycled Percussion Concert at school. This was my first Student Activity event as an outsider so I felt a little apprehensive at the start. Usually, I’d be helping or hosting the event and neither were the case this time. The concert went really well followed by some wings at BW3’s. I left a little early once everyone’s liquor set in.

The drive home is always fun because I turn my music up as loud as I can and enjoy the quiet streets of my hometown. I hope I’m not the only one who does this but I have a virtual concert in my car on the way home. I just wish I could sing a little better that way I wouldn’t have to have the music up so loud.

Also this weekend, while I wasn’t touring and signing autographs, I’ve been spending a lot of time with friends and playing cards. I’ve been winning a lot lately and I have no reason why. I’m just going to ride this lucky streak as long as I can. Hopefully, it will last until after the cruise this Spring Break. I’m hitting the Black Jack tables!

The Hoosiers lost really bad tonight. I didn’t get to see much of the game but from the final score it didn’t look pretty. Unlike basketball, there is no scoreboard in life. I wish there was because it’d be nice to know where I stand. Now, I know that I should be going by the old phrases: “You should only care about how you are doing in life.” or “You should only do things for yourself in this life.”

I kind of have a problem with these phrases because the person who made them up in my opinion never really lived. I know in my life I do care about how my family and friends think I’m doing and I’ve never done everything for myself. Sometimes, I like to do things when others say that they couldn’t or can't be done.

I’m not talking about doing bad things because my folks have told me not to like the typical college student does. I’m talking about getting an A in that really difficult class when others say its impossible or beating the odds because no one expects you to. Just taking someone’s words and shoving it right back in their face. It feels so good when that happens.

January 25, 2006

Prom Memories

I had a meeting today with the Leadership Council to discuss Campus Safety & Security. I think there is a good chance that we will get an extra emergency call box on top of the parking garage so the meeting was a great success. However, that wasn't the most interesting part of the meeting.

We were going over a policy that was written while I was high school so I was trying to familiarize myself with it. It wasn't too bad considering I was thinking about Prom while they were writing the material. They asked me how many I went to and couldn't believe it that I went to four. Definitely a good morning chuckle for all of us.

After the meeting, I started thinking about all of those proms. Here is what I thought about:

My first prom was at the Apollo Room on Grissom Air Force base. It was my high school's prom and the thought of having it near a maximum security prison kinda scares me now in retrospect. My date and I had a great time. The funny thing was that she was the first girl I ever kissed when I was a kid. That story is worthy of a post so I might inform you on that in the coming days. Unfortunately, history did not repeat that night but it didn't matter because none of my friends got a kiss either. Ha ha!

My second prom was the same year. It was for a different school. This had to be my favorite tux out of the four because I was wearing a purple vest. It sounds stupid and sad but I must say that I was looking sharp that night. The prom location was on a boat in Northern Indiana which was pretty cool. Very romantic setting for a prom I thought. The person I went with was the person I was dating at the time but things kinda fizzled out after that night. Please don't ask me why. Ha ha!

My third prom was my last year of high school with a girl I had been dating for quite some time. I've mentioned her in a few posts I'm sure. This was my senior prom and the location was at the Oak Hill Mansion in Indy which still puzzles me to this day. I had a great time because the food was excellent and our table was full of interesting people. My only complaint was that it was such a long drive down there that my date and I were exhausted by the end of the evening. But the fun was just beginning because . . .

. . . my fourth prom was my girlfriend's which was the very next night. This was my favorite of all four because a good number of my friend's from my school were going to it plus no one knew who we were. A little bit of mystery is great in high school because there is always someone wanting to know, "Who are they?" Even though it was in their gymnasium, they did a great job of decorating it. Probably just as good as the prom on the boat. Good times!

I know these memories sounds childish and sad but when you are that age those things mean so much. Our friends and colleagues may change over time but the one constant thing is the memories that we make.

January 24, 2006

Done for the Day

I love having my last class for the day finish at 11:15 AM. Today I had my General Education classes and I learned quite a bit. We were discussing the IDEA which is a law that guarantees the right to an education for children with special needs.

It was especially interesting because the sponsor of the original bill was Senator Tom Harkin of Iowa whom I met this summer at a Democratic Party event in DC. He was a great person to talk with and a very good public speaker.

We also discussed the need for standardized testing in Indiana. In fact, in the Indiana House of Representatives right now there is legislation pending that would make teachers responsible for their students not doing well on these tests. What I can't understand is why our leaders continue to say they support public education but do nothing to improve our schools or protect teachers. Teachers and the common man are working harder than ever with less job security and lower pay and it is ridiculous.

I would also like to add that not all teachers are terrible like many stories in the media show. For every bad teacher you have so many that do great things each and every day by inspiring people like me to do great things.

It seems as if there is so much confusion in government at the national level. Scandals, Partisanship, and Polarization have come to dominate politics. I'm starting to move away from the standpoint of thinking that one party is better than the other.

From what I see, I do not agree with most of the things the Republicans bring to the table while at the same time the Democrats do not know how to sell their ideas. I think we just need a change in leaders with both parties because from what I can see, they are both failing our country and creating a mess that my generation is going to have to pick up. Thanks!

University Bowling Tournament is this evening and I'm actually looking forward to it. I didn't think I would want to bowl this semester but for some reason I can't just imagine a Tuesday evening without it. I will be bowling with my good friend and newly activated Secret Service Agent #5 Nick. Congratulations Nick!

Have a great day!

January 22, 2006

Sunday Movie

My dad and I took in a movie this evening. "Glory Road" is a must see movie for anyone has not seen it yet. Some say it is like "Remember the Titans" but I think it is much better. The same message about racism is there but for some reason I like "Glory Road" better. Anyway, GO SEE IT!

I spent most of my day at home while my folks went to West Lafayette. It was fun, I got to hang out with the dog and the cat. They are so fun to play with because they will run all over the house and then drop. In fact, I woke up today with the dog sleeping at the foot of the bed and the cat sleeping just outside my door. I'm so glad that I have protection. They are my Secret Service at home.

This Saturday at Butler was fun with the Speech Team. Chad and Josh did really well. Josh and I missed qualifying for Nationals by 4 points. Not bad for just starting to work on it Tuesday of last week. Also, I would like to congratulate Bill and Josh for becoming IUK Secret Service Agents number 3 and 4, respectivly. Congrats guys! I know you will do a great job!

Well, I am going to enjoy my last few minutes of Sunday evening before my early morning class tomorrow. Cheers everyone!

January 20, 2006

Marriage? Me?

What a long day?! I slept in today because I didn't have to be at an 8:30 AM class. Ah, the simple pleasures that make up my life. What would I do without them?

I was quite happy that my lower back pain went away. I think it's because I've began more lifting exercises lately. I used to make fun of those guys that would spend hours in the weight room and now I'm in there for an hour myself. Go figure!

I went to my speech meeting today at 1:00 PM and it was good times as usual. My acting partner and I finally have our duo ready for tomorrow's competition. I also got to see Chad's musical duo. It was so funny that I had to leave the room because I was laughing and crying so hard.

After rehearsals and everything, myself and some of the other guys went to this Thai Restaurant downtown. It's pretty good although I think next time I will tell them to leave out the pineapples. I hate those things!

I spoke with some good friends this evening online. One of them is getting married in the winter and I've been wanting to wish him the best of luck for the future and give him my congratulations. He's a great guy.

Like a lot of people my age, a good number of my friends are getting engaged and married right now. Some are even having children. I really don't see myself getting married. I just don't think I'm the marrying kind. I really shouldn't print this because I know my friends are going to use this against me when it fate throws me a curveball. Oh well, have a good night!

January 19, 2006

Eventful Days

As the end of January is approaching, I am happy to say that I have been keeping a good workout schedule for almost a month now. Granted, this is small when compared with others but I feel great, I have more energy, and I'm able to get through these long days so much easier. Thanks to everyone for their continued support! It's gonna happen!

I've had a pretty eventful couple of days so this should be a long post. I was especially happy to get the chance to have lunch with my mom for the second week in a row. Instead of Italian, we went with Mexican this week. It also gives me the chance to hear what's on her mind for an hour. After all, the best advice she ever gave me was, "Kyle! Shut up. You talk way too much!" Representin' the MLK speech there. Oh yeah!

The night was good too because we finally got to play some basketball. I was a little dissappointed in my outside shooting though. I haven't been able to get into a rythym lately. I don't think that I'm following the BEEF technique. Ben, you know what I'm talkin' about. I did sit the last game out because my lower back started acting up. I don't know why. I think I'll be cashing in my masage gift certificate soon to solve that problem.

Today was mostly just wrapping up classes for the week. Not bad to have the weekend start at 11:15 AM after your last class on Thursday. Good news on the Education front. I might get the chance to do some research with one of my professors in the near future. I'm looking forward to the challenge.

Well, I am off! This weekend will be dedicated to my good buddy Zach turning 21 and the very first performance of "Scooter Thomas Makes It To The Top Of The World." I will be playing Scooter and my bud Josh will be playing his friend Dennis. Hopefully we can break for nationals. I'll keep ya posted!

January 17, 2006

Lots of Writing

Another day is done and I am one day closer to graduation. Today the feeling of "I just want to get out of here and work" hit me. I really hate having this feeling because I have enjoyed college a lot more than what most people do.

While I have been doing so many great things at school, I am personally in a funk right now. I wish I could put my finger on it. Maybe the answer will come soon. I really hope so. I did, however, have a good conversation with a friend about faith, God, and life today which did help a little bit.

I have been doing a lot of writing lately. To be truthful I've been doing it more and more. It helps quite a bit to put my feelings on paper. I wish I knew what that was called. Is it self-psychology? Oh well, I'm sure there is a technical term for it. Either way, have a good one!

January 16, 2006

What are ya gonna do?

It's been a long weekend and I've enjoyed it. The political play for the week is up. I met the Congressman in question this summer and I thought he was a pretty cool guy. Oh well, what are ya gonna do?

Anyway, today was a really sad day in the Hoosier State after the Colts loss. As I was leaving my buddy Shane's house yesterday, I saw two old women hugging and crying outside of a bar in Greentown. You haven't lived until you've seen a site like that.

The night was pretty good too. Coffee with the guys is always a great way to end the weekend. Too bad that we won't be playing basketball on Sundays anymore. At least we are still going to play on Wednesday. My buddy John and I also got to chat with a couple people after Mike left. It was quite interesting.

Speech meeting was today followed by a little bit of YMCA weight action. Definitely not looking forward to early morning class tomorrow. I made it through the first week of school but I doubt I have any energy to make it until May. Pray for me!

January 13, 2006

Long Day

Today brought some much needed rest and relaxation. The first week of school is finally in the books and it was nice to be able to sleep in past 9:00 AM. I can remember back to this summer when sleeping until 7:30 AM was considered sleeping in. I love waking up in my own bed but it's sad that I don't get to see the Capital Building and the Washington Monument when I look out my window.

First debate meeting of the semester was today. The topic for this debate wasn't political for the first time in a while. Ironically, it was about the Indianapolis Colts chances winning the Super Bowl and I was on the negative side. My partner and I won the debate but that doesn't mean that the opposition didn't give us a good fight. I'm looking forward to speech and debate this semester but it makes me tired just to think about all of the competitions we are planning on going to.

My folks, my uncle, and aunt made a trip to West Lafayette this evening to watch my brother compete in his first home swim meet as a Boilermaker. He came in first twice and got one second so that brings his college career to 6 firsts and 1 second. Not bad I think. After the meet, the entire team was on hand to sign copies of the swim calendar. It'll be in my office on Monday, next to my IU stuff of course.

It was kinda weird seeing my brother for the first time in a couple days. I've missed having him at home since he's gone away to school. I don't know how I did it for so long this summer. Well, as you can see, it's been a long day. Have a good night!

January 12, 2006

MLK Day Speech

As promised, here is my speech from the Martin Luther King Luncheon. Enjoy!

Thank you. Chancellor Person, members of the faculty, distinguished guests, ladies and gentlemen: I’d like to thank you all for coming. I’d also like to thank the African American Choral Ensemble for being here today. You have touched my heart, lifted my spirit, and to be quite honest, you are a tough act to follow. It is indeed an honor for me to be addressing you this afternoon.

Like most college students, I have been doing a lot of reading this week. In fact, I finally picked up a book that I have been neglecting for quite some time.

In this book, the author told a story of the time when he was sitting in a Harlem Department store. As he was signing copies of his most recent book, an estranged woman ran up to him and stabbed him with a letter opener. After they rushed him to the hospital, he laid in bed for hours while final preparations were being made to remove the letter opener. It was not until days later, when he learned that the tip had been touching his aorta and had he sneezed he would not have made it. As I stand here today, I am so grateful that that he did not sneeze.

Today, we gather to remember Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.: Noble Peace Prize winner, visionary preacher, servant-leader.

A man who was more than just an advocate of civil rights but an advocate of the human spirit.

A man who could bring an audience to tears and fill their hearts with joy all at the same time.

A man who served others with a message of faith and community.For many years, IU Kokomo has put on this luncheon and been very successful with it; but as my good friend, Catherine Barnes once told me, “Martin Luther King wouldn’t just want us to sit, eat, and talk about how great he was.” He would want us to spread his message of faith. It’s a faith in the future.

A faith in believing that there are brighter days ahead even when things seem to be at there darkest. As Dr. King said “only when it is dark enough can you see the stars.”

And a faith that remembers what the scripture says, “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”

So, for the next five years, IU Kokomo will turn our words into actions with “A Day of Service” in an effort to inspire others to pursue their individual dreams. Our dreams not only provide us with a direction in life but also inspire us to do great things.

I could say to all of you that I have never questioned my willingness to follow my dream, but I would be lying to you if I did. Ever since I entered college, it was my dream to one day live and work in Washington DC. To be honest, I never thought it was possible and it took a lot of very smart people to change my mind, many of whom are seated in this very room. As I was preparing for this address, I started thinking of them.

One person said to me, “You talk a big game but what are you really doing about it?”

A close friend of mine said to me, “You have all of these dreams but what have you ever done about them?”

And this one, which is probably my favorite, came from my mother, “You talk way too much to do so little.” I love you mother. Thank you!

It was because of these people, and my mother’s sarcasm, that I was able to follow my dream of working in our nation’s Capital by serving as a Congressional Intern and it was the best summer of my life. From this experience, I have learned that no dream is unattainable.

As many of you remember, Martin Luther King shared his dream with our nation during the summer of 1963. It was not a dream just for him but for our entire country. It was a dream of hope. The hope of cashing a check of freedom and individual security while, at the same time, refusing to believe that the bank of justice was bankrupt. Since then, we have cashed that check and invested it into the stock of racial equality and the bond of justice for all. However, our investment must continue to expand.

And we have every reason to be optimistic that it will. Working together, we can build a community that Martin Luther King envisioned.

We can build a community that inspires young people to vote and serve in public life.

We can build a community that is no longer plagued by hate crimes and discrimination against people of different races, beliefs, or ethnic backgrounds.

We can build a community where the biggest drug on the streets is a book and the biggest addiction is a child’s thirst for knowledge.

In this ever-changing world, its true that we will face many challenges, but with every challenge, there is an opportunity. We have before us the opportunity to make a difference, improve our nation, and as Dr. King once said “. . . get to the Promised Land!”

In his last sermon, Martin Luther King said, “I've seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you. But I want you to know tonight, that we, as a people, will get to the Promised Land!”

Just as he said in his last sermon, we will get to the Promised Land. But we will only get there by having the faith in each other to serve our community.

So as I close today, let us continue to serve our nation and keep the faith.

Let us continue to build a community that Martin Luther King would be proud of

Let us continue our journey to the Promised Land

Thank you very much.

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January 07, 2006

Hoosiers Win

How sweet it is to say those two words. Today has been a full out, 100% bum day. I woke up around 8 and I just haven't done too much today.

I didn't even get a chance to go out to the YMCA to lift weights. Oh well, I went everyday this week. I could definitely tell that people are starting to forget their New Year's Resolutions already because it wasn't that crowded this week. Except for a couple of people clanging the weights, it was relatively quite this week to be honest.

This afternoon and evening has been strictly focussed on watching the Hoosiers play Ohio State. It doesn't matter what sport it is, I cannot stand THE Ohio State University. Don't ask me why but I enjoy beating them more than Purdue because it doesn't happen very often. Special thanks to Adam's Hawkeyes defeating the Illini this afternoon as well!

Tonight's big game is the Jaguars vs. the Patriots in the first AFC Wild Card Playoff. My conscience is telling me that the Patriots will have no trouble winning but I will be rooting for the Jaguars. Go Jags Go!

January 05, 2006

Kyle is 63

The name "Kyle" was number 63 in the top 100 baby names of 2005. Here are a handful of the names that were more popular.
  • Aidan
  • Ethan
  • Jayden
  • Gabriel
  • Mason
  • Braden
  • Elijah
  • Owen
  • Samuel
  • Hunter
  • Landon
  • Carter
  • Liam
  • Hayden
  • Dominic

GOP in Trouble

It's been a while since I gave a political sound bite but I think I'd try today. If anyone is glad to see 2005 end it has to be the Republican Party. The year has brought nothing but bad news except for the inauguration of President George W. Bush.

Even in local politics, lawmakers are feeling the heat of the opposition because of increased crime rates and enormous tax increases. However, in these turbulent and ever-changing times, we as a people need more than just attacks. We need and deserve solutions.

Any child can look at something and say what is wrong with it but it takes a real person to step up to the plate and solve that problem. This year, it is my hope that the Democratic Party, my party, is willing to do this.

I hope that they will not just talk about what has gone wrong but what could go right. I hope that they will not just sit but walk through our communities. I hope that our older members of the party will not just be willing to pass the buck to our younger Democrats but help show us the way to a better tomorrow.

From what I have seen in the past, I am confident in all of these things happening. Right now, the Democratic Party has a chance to do something miraculous: Lead our country in the right direction. True, a lot of us feel like this is a gigantic challenge by taking on the big corporate money and special interests but with each challenge there is opportunity.

The opportunity to give our veterans the benefits they deserve is there. The opportunity to find an exit strategy in Iraq is there. The opportunity to provide healthcare to all of our nation's young people is there. But we have got to stick together. As the good book says Where there is no vision, the people parish.

Just once I would like our values to be reflected in our actions instead of our words!

January 04, 2006

Lots of News

Quite a bit has happened to me since my last post. I'll try to fit it all it but as the day grows longer I'm starting to get a little tired. I hate having to wake up at a decent hour. I'm not going to make it when school starts. My new favorite hobby has now become the afternoon nap!

Well, today my Uncle Roger and my Aunt Laurie had a baby! It's a girl! They called us a few times last night to let us know that it was going to happen. I'm so happy for them. It is going to be pretty weird because when my new cousin goes to college, I'll almost be 40! Hopefully, I'll be in Congress by then. Who knows.

Anyway, my family and I moved my brother Chris into Purdue yesterday. The dorms weren't too bad except that it was Purdue. Go Hoosiers! It was a day full of mixed feelings really. Glad to see Chris going to college but sad to not being able to see him everyday like I have for the past 21 years.

Today was my first day back to my office since vacation started and I am so glad to be able to sit back in my Presidential chair. Spring Semester is starting and I'm ready for it to begin. I've got the hang of the position and now is the time to get some real work done. Wish me luck!

Tonight should be a memorable one! Cards at Ben's house. The guys are wanting to play football but my vote is for watching the National Championship between USC and Texas. Go Longhorns!

January 01, 2006

Glad to be 21

The first post of 2006! Here we go. Last night, I went to my good friend Brad's house for a little bit of New Year's celebration. I had a great time and I was quite happy to usher the new year in with such close friends.

It was quite fun. Champagne coupled with good food and beating most of my friends at Risk never disappoints. However, I was very sad to see Dick Clark in the shape that he is in. I also hope that this will be the last time I ever see Ryan Seacrest taking over for Dick Clark on New Year's.

Either way, it was a good evening. Probably the worst moment of the evening was having to sleep on the couch. It's not good when you are 6'0'' tall and the couch you are sleeping on was made for a 5'8'' man. After a few hours of discomfort, I left to head home where I developed a headache and slept for a few hours.

Basketball with the guys is tonight and I'm looking forward to it because I've been doing a great job of going to the gym this vacation. It is very cliche to say that my New Year's Resolution is to lose weight but this year I am committed to the cause. Wish me luck in my quest!

Before I end this post, I thought I would say something about being glad to be 21. I am amazed at how far I have come in these few short years of college in how drinking to me is not the big deal it used to be. I used to regret going to school close to home because I wasn't around the partying and craziness of college but through my experiences I no longer feel that way.

I used to feel sorry for myself and wish I was away at the big campus with the friends I had in high school. Now, I could not be happier because of the friends I keep today. I am glad to be 21 because the liquor tastes so much sweeter when you can buy it yourself.